Thursday, 15 March 2018

Bullies, why they do it, how to handle them ?

Ever been bullied? Let me rephrase ever been targeted by someone that made you feel worthless? I think there will be 2% people who will have negative response for this.

So, first how to react to these bullies? Well first response is to give it back to them but this is not something that I'd suggest. Because you need not stoop down to there level and you are way above them. Why did I say you are way above them? Because that my friend is the truth and I am not saying this to make you feel good. Tell me what do you feel when you see a grown man/woman throwing stones at an innocent animal you just think of that person as pathetic moron who needs to feed of those, whom he feels are weaker than him. What do you feel when you see a person dissing about a great personality, you'll probably laugh, because it isn't this persons place to be able to see eye to eye with the person he is dissing about.

See you need to understand this, these people who bully you, they need to do this to feel meaningful. Because they feel inadequate about themselves. It is their inferiority complex that they are trying to cope with, by this bullying. And why you? Because you make them feel inadequate. These are generally the people who know they don't have it in them to reach where you can, so they try to play you down. Just so that they don't feel emasculated.

So, smile my friend and pity such fools, because they fear your intensity, or beauty or intelligence or your personality or whatever. Just pity those people, smile ignore and move on. This should serve as a fuel, as a motivator to achieve what you want.

Someone once said, when people try to pull you down that means you are on the right path. And there is place for only one at the top. So my friend, keep fighting, keep being the amazing you.

Remember, whoever is trying to pull you down, is already below you.

Also, please do keep in mind, if it is going out of hand and is affecting you still, you stand up to this moron. And you can always report this person to Anti Bullying Bureau or near by authorities, this is not something you have to take.

You are not alone, you just need to extend a hand for help, to help.

Be The Awesome You!
Happy Living :) 


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